Mom & Me One Archive: 2002-2003
The definitive, eccentric journal of an unlikely caregiver.
As of 1/18/04 this journal continues at The Mom & Me Journals dot Net.

7 minute Audio Introduction to The Mom & Me Journals

My purpose in establishing and maintaining this journal
is to undermine the isolation of the caregiving experience
by offering all, especially our loved ones, a window into our lives.
As I post to this journal I think of our loved ones and their families,
how busy and involved we all are, and that,
if and when they come to this site they can be assured
that they will miss nothing in our lives and will, thereby, recognize us
and relax easily into our arms and our routines
when we are again face to face.

Legend of Journal Abbreviations
 APF = A Prescott Friend (generic) 
 DU = Dead Uncle 
 LTF = Long Time Friend a.k.a: 
   MFASRF = My Fucking Anal San Rafael Friend 
 MA = Mom's Accountant 
 MCF = My Chandler Friend(s) 
 MCS = My Colorado Sister 
 MDL = My Dead Lover 
 MFLNF = My Former Lover Now Friend 
 MLDL = My Long Distance Lover 
 MFA = Mom's Financial Advisor 
 MFS = My Florida Sister 
 MPBIL = My Phoenix Brother-in-Law 
 MPF = My Phoenix Friend (generic) 
 MPNC = My Phoenix NieCe 
 MPNP = My Phoenix NePhew 
 MPS = My Phoenix Sister 
 MS = Mom's Sister 
 MTNDN = My Treasured Next Door Neighor 
 OCC = Our Construction Company 
Tuesday, August 05, 2003
 
It came to me in a flash...
...while I was getting my hair cut less than an hour ago. No more doctors! That's what we need. This is the best reason for us to go to Prescott for what's left of the season. We need to stop taking Mom to see doctors for awhile unless we have an emergency.
    Of course I'll make sure she's registered at the Veteran's Hospital and clinic there. We'll have her eyes checked, take her in for a dental check and cleaning and they'll be there in case of emergency but we don't need to have doctors examining her for awhile, now. We could use some doctor-free time, both of us. We don't need doctors checking on us, we don't need doctors mulling over what I'm doing and telling me I'm doing it wrong, we don't need doctors telling me she needs some procedure that they later tell me she didn't need after it's done, we don't need doctors refusing to think out loud with me, we don't need doctors for awhile. A few doctor free months will do us a world of good, I think.
    I just announced this to Mom as I walked in the door. She agrees. After next week they can bother some of their other patients. We'll spend the next few months getting clear on the doctor experience without their help.
    Although Shakespeare wrote, "Kill all the lawyers," doctors should have been included, and I'll bet he knew that...it just didn't fit into "Henry VI".
    Whew! Now, maybe we can enjoy life, again!
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